Terry B. Metcalf, 76, of Collinsville and formerly of Granite City, Illinois, passed away at 9:26 a.m. on Friday, October 30, 2026, at Evelyn’s House Hospice in Creve Coeur, Missouri.
He was born March 7, 1950, in Highland, Illinois, a son of the late Paul Metcalf and Doris (Elliott) Butler.
Terry dedicated many years of his professional life to his career as an engineer, most recently working with Verizon. Throughout his life, he valued the friendships he made and the special memories shared with those closest to him. Above all, Terry cherished his family and the meaningful moments spent with his loved ones. He will be remembered for the lasting friendships he cultivated and the special place he held in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
He is survived by his beloved son, Ryan Metcalf of Collinsville; a brother and sister-in-law, Byron and Linda Metcalf of Clarkston, Michigan; a sister and brother-in-law, Sharon and Joseph Vilga of Orange, Virginia; nieces and nephews, Byron Metcalf Jr. of Levering, Michigan, Katherine and Lt. Col. Scott Lloyd of Breezewood, Pennsylvania, and Joseph and Debbie Vilga Jr. of Orange, Virginia; other extended family members; and many dear friends.
In addition to his beloved parents, Terry was preceded in death by his stepfather, Tate Butler.
Terry's family wishes to express their heartfelt gratitude to the many wonderful friends who offered their love, encouragement and support throughout his journey. A very special expression of appreciation is extended to John and Leisa Martinez of Columbia, Illinois, for their unwavering friendship, kindness and continuous support of both Terry and his son, Ryan, during their times of greatest need. The family would also like to extend their sincere thanks to the compassionate staff of Evelyn’s House Hospice for the exceptional care, comfort and kindness provided to Terry and his loved ones during his final days.
In celebration of his life, visitation will be held at Irwin Chapel, 3960 Maryville Road in Granite City, on Friday, November 13, 2026, from 11:00 a.m. until the time of a memorial service at 1:00 p.m., with Chaplain Danny R. Cox officiating.
In lieu of floral tributes, the family requests that memorial donations be made to Evelyn’s House Hospice or the National Kidney Foundation of Illinois.
Terry will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by his family and the many friends whose lives he touched throughout the years. Although he is no longer with us, the memories shared and the friendships he treasured will remain forever in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
Condolences and memories may be shared with the family at www.irwinchapel.com.