Thomas Herrin
Granite City |
Thomas Ray Herrin, Jr., 87, peacefully passed from this life at 5:20 p.m., Tuesday, January 21, 2025, in the comfort of his home, surrounded by the unwavering love of his family.
Born on February 1, 1937, in West Frankfort, Illinois, Tom was the son of the late Thomas Ray and Sarah (Jones) Herrin, Sr.
A proud graduate of West Frankfort High School’s Class of 1955, Tom built a life rooted in hard work and an unshakable love for his family. He married his soulmate, Cheryl McElyea on December 1, 1962, outside of West Frankfort, beginning a partnership that would span more than six decades. Together, they created a life filled with love, adventure, and resilience, raising their daughters in Granite City and shaping a legacy of family values.
Tom dedicated 43 years to his work as an Aircraft Electrician at McDonnell Douglas in St. Louis, Missouri, a role he took great pride in. His work fostered his lifelong enthusiasm for airplanes and trains. He transformed his passion into a creative outlet, building an impressive model train collection and crafting a basement retreat where he could indulge in his hobby – a space that became his sanctuary in a house full of girls.
At his core, Tom was a family man, and his love for his wife, daughters, and grandsons defined his life. He worked tirelessly to provide for his family, leading with quiet strength, humility, and boundless generosity. He was a masterful storyteller, captivating those around him with stories that reflected his wisdom, humor, and love for life.
Tom and Cheryl were inseparable. Whether working puzzles together, sharing a quiet moment at home, or embarking on an adventure with their family, they found joy in simply being together. For them, it didn’t matter what they were doing as long as they were by each other’s side. Their bond was a testament to their deep love and enduring commitment, shining brightly through both life’s happiest and most difficult moments.
Their devotion to family was most evident during times of hardship. When their daughter, Raye, faced her battle with cancer, Tom and Cheryl’s love and strength carried them through. They opened their home and hearts to ensure she was surrounded by love in her final days. As Tom’s health declined, Cheryl returned that devotion, remaining steadfastly by his side and ensuring he too could spend his final days at home, surrounded by the family he so deeply loved.
Tom’s grandsons were the light of his life, and he found immense joy in supporting them in everything they did. He wasn’t just a grandpa to them – he became a “bonus” grandpa to their friends as well, always welcoming them with open arms. He was accepting and genuinely invested in their lives, forming connections that made everyone feel special. Tom loved spending time with them, always looking forward to their visits and conversations. Watching his grandsons grow into young men filled him with pride, and his influence will forever be woven into their lives and the lives of those lucky enough to know him.
While his family mourns his passing, they find peace in knowing he is free from pain and reunited with his beloved daughter, Raye.
Tom is survived by his wife, Cheryl Herrin of Granite City; his daughter and son-in-law, Ragina and Richard Wegner II of Watertown, Wisconsin; his four grandsons, Derek (Spencer) Milkovich of St. Louis, Missouri, Devin Milkovich of Marine, Nathan (Katherine) Wegner of Independence, Iowa and Richard (Ashley) Wegner III of Joliet; and countless others who were blessed to know him.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Thomas and Sarah Herrin; His daughter, Rayette Lynn Milkovich; his sister, Brenda Wilkerson; and his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Charley and Wanda McElyea.
Per Tom’s wishes, no services will be held. His family encourages those who loved him to honor his memory by cherishing their families, living with kindness, and finding joy in life’s simple moments – just as he did.
Memories may be shared with the family by visiting www.crawfordfunerals.com.
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